He was always so quiet and stuck up…but now he’s mush. I think his mushiness is adorable, but I can see how girls that are attracted to his cold calm “I’m so awesome” facade would be completely repelled by his Betaness.

I wish I’d known beforehand that he would take the “let’s kiss!” thing so seriously. I would have started slower. I had no idea he even liked me.

…I wonder how many other guys and girls in my life I’ve accidentally led on?

*grabs some markers* I should make a ladder chart now.

Brendan
June 4, 2011 at 7:09 am
But we don’t “only have eyes for you.” It’s just not the way we work.

Which is one of the nastier red pill truths for women to swallow about men.

Loveawake, Why So serious?
The Frustrated Black Man
To Seduce, Or To Be Seduced? That Is The Question
The State You Need To Be In, Always
Be Yourself, Unless You’re Nervous, Than Be Someone Else
Women Can’t Keep The High Value Man
Shaming Tactics in Dating: Defense and Offense Strategies
Friends vs Girlfriends
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A small group of men are starting to answer this question in the negative, and a lot of women are not happy about it.

“It seems as though men understand women but women don’t understand men kind of like conservatives understand liberals but liberals don’t understand conservatives.”

I’m not sure I’d go this far. Lots of men still don’t understand women. Not that the culture helps. That’s part of what I’m trying to solve by blogging ;)

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Thag Jones
June 3, 2011 at 10:21 pm
In other words, thinking that if a man is attracted to another woman, that means he’s assessing her value relative to yours and finding you lacking or that he is otherwise dissatisfied with you

This is exactly what it is.

Thag Jones
June 3, 2011 at 10:23 pm
It seems as though men understand women but women don’t understand men kind of like conservatives understand liberals but liberals don’t understand conservatives.

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Brendan
June 3, 2011 at 12:22 pm
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